Citizen TV new anchor Lillian Muli has decided to become a relationship expert recently after dishing out multiple pieces of relationship advice to women. Her latest one was advising women against dating married men terming it as ‘killing’ your future.
When you date a married man and he leaves his wife. You enter a world of likes. He cheated and he will cheat on you. If you are involved with a weak man, you will always end up sharing him. Beat up one girl, another will be texting him next week, curse out two girls online, they’ll be back in his inbox the next month. He is the problem, not the other girls.
Your job is to love your man, not to babysit him. You can’t spend your life trying to guard against what might happen when he’s left alone. The unpopular truth is that a man will always do what he wants to do. If your love isn’t enough to discipline him, then it’s misplaced on him.
How do you compete with other women? You find a man strong enough not to make them your competition in the first place.